WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A REAL MAN - Abiodun Lambaba Blog



Friday, 5 October 2018


A Man is not defined by his muscles, his facial hair, what he wears,what he drives, or by how much money he makes. The common assumption a lot of guys have is that being male automatically makes them man. Don't get me wrong, a person must be male to be a man, but it is not the sole qualification for becoming a good man.

         A real man is one who takes care of life's responsibilities. Such responsibilities may include;

  • Obligation to family
  • Obligation to friends
  • Obligation to career
  • Obligation to community
   A real man is a role model and he respects women. Negative media that degrades women does not influence a real ma.

  A real man don't measure themselves by the success of other men.
  Real man don't quit
  Real man are mentally strong as well as physically strong.
  Real man are open-minded they are not racist,sexist or homophobic.
  Real man respect the opposing view points of others even through they may disagree with them.
  A real man values education and is always ready to learn.
  A real man is confident in himself but he is not arrogant.
  A real man knows himself and his limits.

             A boy grows from teenager to a man when he reaches certain milestones in his life.
           When a teenager graduates from university he is no longer considered as a child. he must go and make a productive life for himself. When a guy get a job, earns his driver(s) license, open bank account, start paying bills,begin to date, and he begins to make decisions on his own life, he should be 'considered a man'

            Some kids grow up quick therefore i believe that a man cannot be defined by 'AGE'
            A boy becomes a man as soon as he is SUCCESSFULLY able to handle adult responsibility.

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